life of faith

taking baby steps & leaps & everything in between

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From today’s devotional:

“Some people love what they do, but most merely toil to survive.  As a result, we’ve come to think of work as a result of the Fall.  Many endure a life of futility and anonymity in the bowels of some large corporation.  We yearn to be fruitful, to do something that flows naturally out of the gifts and capacities of our own soul.  But of course – we were meant to be the kings and queens of the earth.” – John Eldredge; Knowing the Heart of God

I’ve been thinking a lot about laboring to make money vs. doing something that I end up loving because I’m good at it and it’s fulfilling. I realize most (maybe including me) don’t have a choice. But I think everyone wants to do something they love. I think that’s what we were created for — whether it’s in our 9-5 or outside of it. Because when we’re doing something we love – when we’re exhibiting our gifts and talents and feeling purpose – we exhibit our Creator.


What does it mean to be fruitful?

“Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters… it is the Lord Christ you are serving.” – Colossians 3:23,24 (NIV)

“For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.” – Ephesians 2:10 (NIV)

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The Importance of Seeking God.

Just had a wonderful time being out for food & drinks & catch-up with Kay, and last night I had a wonderful time hanging out at Amy’s apartment having a heart-to-heart with Amy. These pieces of time really enrich my soul — I feel the difference — and that is how I know they are a gift from God & that close Christian friendships are designed by Him. I have so much love in my heart for each of those girls and am really grateful for them and what God is teaching me through them! They are such an encouragement to me.

I’ve realized I need to take more time out for God and specifically being in His Word. Almost every other activity is draining, while I feel noticeably refreshed, sustained, at peace, wise, hopeful, secure, and loving when I invest my time with the LORD, studying the Bible. It’s made to be that way. “You have made us for yourself, O LORD, and our hearts are restless until they rest in you.” – St. Augustine. Oh, that I would remember this and believe it and carry it with me! I always forget, and then I am re-awakened when I return to the right order of things. God should come first. <– remember this, remember this, remember this!

I have been off-and-on with the devotional I bought for this year – Knowing the Heart of God by John Eldredge. This morning I took the time to read today’s and it was just incredible. I’d love to write the whole thing out, but I’m not sure Mr. Eldredge or Thomas Nelson publishing would be very happy with me, so I’ll just select a couple of quotes that really stood out:

(It was based on Matthew 28:18-20, where Jesus says, “Go and make disciples of all nations… And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.”)

“You are not what you think you are. There is a glory to your life that your Enemy fears, and he is hell-bent on destroying that glory before you act on it.”

“The story of your life is the story of the long and brutal assault on your heart by the one who knows what you could be and fears it.”

I don’t know about you, but that revs me up! We were created to be beautiful and glorious and significant and purposeful. We humans are the only created thing made in the IMAGE of the Father God! We have an honored place in God’s creation. He treasures us, and, not content to leave us where we are, He believes in us! Because He MADE us and KNOWS us. We are accomplishing a divine purpose, a plan that has been in place since the beginning of the world, bringing glory to our Father King, the PERFECT God, the quintessence of love. The whole thing blows my mind.

If nothing else, I can live with that purpose. Even in the “not extraordinary” days, as John Eldredge refers to them. “They are filled with the mundane, with hassles mostly.” AMEN. “…But once you begin to see with those eyes, once you have begun to know it is true from the bottom of your heart, it will change everything.” I believe this by faith. I don’t currently see it, or see everything, but I know there is a bigger drama playing out behind the curtain.

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DIY DAW (Doesn’t Always Work).

Dayne says he wants me to blog more. So this one’s for Dayne!

(For the record, I’d like to blog more, too.)

A couple of months ago, I was convicted through a number of channels (my Beth Moore Breaking Free study, our book study on The Christian Atheist by Craig Groeschel, and a particular sermon Phil gave at church) that I depend too much on myself and too little on God.  I always grabbed life by the horns, and I had established a foundational mindset that I was in charge, that I knew better than God, and that no one was going to take care of me or anything else, so I’d better get cracking.  This illness has shown up in many wonderful places, like the way that I have habitually ruined relationships, sabotaged my mental and physical health, over-scheduled myself to burn-outs, and hid (or, at worst, ran) from God.

Coming to this realization was a huge turning point for me, but recently I’ve discovered that, even with my shifted perspective & general surrender to God, I still have some major death-grips on key aspects of my life.  I can recognize them by the knowledge that I would be majorly ticked if God messed with any of these areas (listed in order of tightness of grip):

1) my relationship & its future.  To be honest, I would hate more than anything to see another relationship fail.  I want nothing in this world more than to never lose Dayne.  For all the challenges that a committed relationship brings, I have learned and grown SO much and been encouraged more than I could ever imagine.  He is an incredible human being and an even more incredible boyfriend.

2) my employment & pay level.  I’ve worked hard over the past two years in my nanny job, and I finally reached a level of pay that I am more or less satisfied with.  I don’t want to be let go from this job unexpectedly, and I don’t want to be in a situation where I’m making less (or no) money.

3) my home life.  I like being settled in a nice apartment with the comfort of some personal space, a nice kitchen, a warm bed, etc.  I don’t want any unexpected moves or big changes.

4) my friendships.  I (unfortunately) work very hard at maintaining these and I think sometimes they are a source of pride, like “I have such incredible friends!”  I really do have incredible friends, but I have to remember that I’m not the One who put them in my life, and it is only by God’s grace that I can do anything (including spending time with and growing my relationships with these incredible friends).

Although I’d love to be in a place where I can just let these things go and say, “Sure, God, whatever You want!”, I just am not there.  I’m disappointed.  I wanted to hand over the keys to my life to God and be done with it — growing in my new freedom to relax and enjoy closeness with Dad.  To follow His direction and His leading only.

Turns out it is not quite that easy!  I’ve been reading Walking with God by John Eldredge with my book study, and in the past two weeks’ readings, John has repeatedly talked about asking God about even the smallest decisions BEFORE we make them.  And actually expecting Him to speak.  It’s not a novel concept, but he presents it in a way that seems novel and is totally practical.  So I’ve started to ask God about the little things.  Should I start going to counseling again?  Should I join the YMCA?  Should I go to the informational Kenya meeting?  There’s no way I’m ready to ask bigger questions, like, “Should I marry Dayne?” or “When should I find a new job?”, because I haven’t even practiced listening for God in smaller situations.

“This is step one in learning to listen to the voice of God: ask simple questions.  You cannot start with huge and desperate questions, such as, ‘Should I marry Ted?’ or ‘Do you want me to sell the family business tomorrow?’ or ‘Do I have lung cancer?’ (Paranoia rarely enables me to hear God’s voice.)  That’s like learning to play the piano by starting with Mozart, learning to ski by doing double black diamonds.  There is way too much emotion involved, too much swirling around in our heads.  I find that to hear the voice of God, we must be in a posture of quiet surrender.  Starting with the small questions helps us learn to do that.” – John Eldredge, Walking with God, p. 30

So surrender starts small.  And builds up.  And eventually I won’t feel any more need to DIY.  Because I’ll know that the One in Charge has my back, and He will show me consistently that He has what’s best for me.  My intimacy with Him will grow, and my fingers will gradually loosen from those bigger areas of my life.

“…The sheep listen to [the shepherd’s] voice.  He calls his own sheep by name and leads them out.  When he has brought out all his own, he goes on ahead of them, and his sheep follow him because they know his voice…  I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.  I am the good shepherd.  The good shepherd lays down his life for the sheep.” – John 10:3-4, 10-11